You can always dilute your mixture if it is too strong. Simply pour a little of the strong mixture in a new cup and add white vinegar.
Here’s an in-depth video explaining the whole process for you.
The torque screws that I use are Big Timber Torx made right here in Montana.
1) Make sure you purchase dried out wood, either kiln or air dried. Do not construct the table until you are sure the wood is completely dry.
2) Use glue sparingly on your joints to allow the wood to expand and contract. As I make more and more woodworking projects, I’m finding just how amazing the power of a solid wood glue like Gorilla Wood Glue is. For a project like the Farmhouse Table, though, you’ll want to use glue carefully. You want the wood to be able to naturally move with the seasons. Use glue sparingly!
3) Recognize that if you’re living in a very humid area, it could be a possibility that the wood could shift so do everything in your power to avoid it becoming an issue.
4) The Kreg Jig is a great joinery system that is perfect for the average DIYer. Other types of more advanced joinery like mortise and tenons will reduce the chances of movement even more, yet pocket hole joinery with a Kreg Jig works great!
Here is a good reference from Fine Woodworking magazine (click the highlighted text) about other, more advanced options for securing tabletops and breadboard ends.